Widely Respected Scientific Study Reveals: Women Love Sex This statistic was derived in a 2007 study by Paige M. Padgett, PhD. while she was a research associate at the University Of Texas School Of Public Health. Padgett's study, entitled "Personal Safety and Sexual Safety for Women Using Online Personal Ads" was published in the widely respected scientific journal, Research & Social Policy, a journal of the National Sexuality Research Center.

The research study focused on the dating habits of 740 women who had placed online dating profiles seeking men. The results were groundbreaking. Dr. Padgett discovered that 33% of the women had sex on the 1st date. And that 77% of those women who had sex didn't use condoms.

Virtual Intimacy Theory Dr. Padgett did not conclude that these women were sluts. Conversely, she found that women who would usually be careful did in fact participate in unprotected intercourse because they were lulled into a sense of virtual intimacy.

Dr. Padgett reasoned that the "virtual intimacy" was created by the disclosure and exchange of personal information through frequent e-mail and telephone calls. The women revealed information about their backgrounds, sexual preferences, and their likes and dislikes with the men they eventually slept with on their 1st date.

This Padgett says created the "virtual intimacy" a sense that a relationship might or might not exist but may encourage sexual intimacy at a faster rate than what would develop through conventional methods.

So What Does This Mean For Gents? The take home here is: Start Online Dating Today! You'll save money as it's cheaper than going to clubs & bars and you'll get laid on the 1st date 33% of the time. But make sure you use condoms.

My View of Padgett & Her Conclusions: She interprets the results of the study incorrectly. She is overly paternalistic and portrays women as weak, pathetic and stupid. They are not. Furthermore, she views men as predators who trick women and lull them into a sense of "virtual intimacy". Bullshit!!

Applying Common Sense To Padgett's Study Let's apply common sense and give women the credit they deserve. Women who date online know exactly what they want. They want to find attractive mates that meet their dating criteria. They select one or several potential mates from the endless number that constantly email them. Then they asked a series questions to determine whether this particular male meets their criteria. If so, it's on!

If you really examine what's going on here, you'll realize that it's the women pressing the fast forward button on the sexual relationship. The women in the study (and all online women daters) want to learn as much about a potential mate as possible, whether by email or over the phone before meeting face-to-face.

Why? To allow themselves to engage in sexual congress as soon as possible. Once a woman convinces herself that a man meets her criteria she will sleep with him. And in every case in Padgett's study, the women had already decided through email and telephone conversations that the particular man in question met her criteria or at least enough of the criteria to warrant sex!

Putting Padgett's Study To Work For You. The bottom line here is: women want sex just as much as you do. But, and this is the most important factor I've gleaned from Padgett's study and from my own online dating experiences: Women want to convince themselves that you are a Quality Guy and that you meet their criteria.

A basic misunderstanding of this factor causes so many men to shoot themselves in the foot at this point. They choose to believe that need one or a combination of the following: (a) fame; (b) money; or (c) power to be a dating success. This is just plain false. The secret to my online dating prowess: Being successful with women online means quite simply, not disqualifying yourself. Women have all kinds of questions, yes. Women have dating criteria, yes.

But, women only need you to answer their inquiries and present yourself in very straightforward manner in order that they can say to themselves, "Hey this guy is normal, he's available, and he's mine." They must be able to give themselves permission to have sex.

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